There are some things that are cute and there are some things that are controlling, and honestly there are a few things that could be either/or.

Tracking your phone when you’re in your car? Mmmm kind of controlling. Unless you’re a specific couple we know, then it’s actually really cute.

If you want to gauge how healthy your relationship is, just make sure it looks like the opposite of THIS.

A woman named Zoe Scholefield from West Yorkshire, England just tweeted a screenshot of a text her ex-boyfriend sent her back when they were together and she was going to a music festival with some friends.

He sent her a list of 12 RULES that all walk the line between jealousy and trying to be controlling to an insane level. They included things like…

“If anyone comes up to you tell them you have a boyfriend”
“Always send me photos of front and back of what you’re wearing so I can approve”
“If you can, [send] a video of room before you sleep to prove no one else is there.”

Zoe posted the list with the comment, “Funny how my ex sent me stuff like this then has the audacity to cheat on me.”

Anyway, they’re broken up now…and her tweet with his list of rules is going viral. As you’d expect, he’s not coming off well in people’s eyes.