What would you do if you find out the guy you’re seeing – who’s AWESOME, by the way – is actually MARRIED?
This listener has been matching with this guy on and off on Bumble for close to a year, so they decided to finally meet up. They started dating, and it was GREAT. And while she always thought it was a little weird he wasn’t on any social media, she kinda wrote it off. Until her friend found him online. ON HIS WIFE’S PAGE.
Here’s what she wrote us – would you tell?
Hey guys!!
So I need some advice on how I should handle this crazy situation I’m in. To make a long story short, I have been dating a guy for a few months now. We’ve been pretty hot and heavy and have done some things that would allow one to think there would definitely be a future. We have both been married in the past and have been very open with one another about the pace that we’d like to take this growing relationship…slowly and organically. I’ve been divorced almost 3 years now and he stated that he’d been divorced for 2 years.
A few red flags have arisen within the past week or so. Which lead me to do some investigation. This past Friday is discovered that he is married!! In fact, he got married 2 years ago; not divorced! His birthday was this weekend so he’s been in Vegas with his guys friends….or so he said.
He returns tonight and I mentioned yesterday that I would like to see him once he’s home bc there is something I’d like to discuss with him face to face. Naturally he begged that I told him to tell him now, but I truly want to see his face once I show him the evidence I found clearly indicating that he’s currently married. Naturally my first instinct when I found this out on Friday was to fight fire with fire. I wanted to ruin his life. Call him out. But after a few days of intense thought I’ve decided to take the not so crazy route bc I’m going for the mature petty route!! I need your help on how and when I should drop this bomb on him. HELP!!
If you're dating a guy and you find out he's MARRIED, do you owe it to his wife to tell her that he's messing around?
— The Bert Show (@TheBertShow) September 12, 2019
